How To Win (JEET AAPKI) - English Novel

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You Can Win- Shiv Khera—– JEET AAPKI

Winners do the same things as everyone BUT BUT BUT differently
This makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE
WINNERS have some qualities and traits————– which help them to WIN And to be successful even we should ideally follow these QUALITIES

Quality 1- ATTITUDE

Building a POSITIVE ATTITUDE is must
This man sells balloons of different color——– whenever his business used to GO DOWN —— he would FLY ONE balloon in the air to attract children and with this technique his sales would increase again.
One day —- a boy came to him and asked him “IF YOU RELEASE A BLACK BALLOON would that
also fly?
Balloon seller’s reply- “SON IT IS NOT THE COLOR OF THE BALLOON _——-IT IS WHAT IS INSIDE THAT MAKES IT GO UP”

Hitler’s conversation with his soldier:

Hitler’s soldier told him that THEY WERE SURROUNDED by enemies from ALL SIDES
Hitler replied- “THAT’S GREAT NOW WE can attack them in any direction.” Everything depends on your ATTITUDE And winners always always always have a +ve one

Harvard study:

According to a HARVARD STUDY

85%——— of people get promoted because of ATTITUDE
15%——– because of KNOWLEDGE or intelligence

Your attitude decides how you will handle any situation in future
POSITIVE ATTITUDE helps in moving AHEAD IN LIFE EASILY

Positive attitude can get amazing results as seen
Therefore always be +ve and see the glass half full

What do we learn from this story according to Shiv Khera?

WHEN- our attitude is RIGHT we REALIZE that we are all walking on ACRES and ACRES of diamonds
We must know HOW TO RECOGNIZE and grab the opportunity
As the SAME opportunity NEVER KNOCKS TWICE——– the next opportunity can be better or worse but it can never be the same

Another tale

This man is a BIG FOLLOWER of GOD Once —- there was a deluge in his village
1. People came to him and suggested that he should leave with them
2. A CAR came to his rescue- BUT AGAIN HE REFUSED saying that his
God will help him
3. A BOAT came to his rescue- his reply was the same
4. A helicopter came
Finally he died—– he complained to God for not saving him
God replied: “Foolish person who had sent the car,
the boat, the helicopter?

Winners grab opportunities!

However, these winners NEVER FEAR FAILURE
They don’t fear failing again and again

Always be ready for SUCCESS and learn to FIGHT these 4 obstacles:

Fear———- biggest obstacle
Fear inculcates LACK OF CONFIDENCE
And encourages procrastination
People under fear feel TRAPPED

Losers make their problems EXCUSES

Problems are excuses for them and they refrain from action because of this
For WINNERS——– problems are a source of MOTIVATION
Motivation is a KEY that ensures ACTION
There are 2 types of motivation

Therefore, always always always HAVE A HIGH
SELF ESTEEM

Obstacle 4- EGO

Ego doesn’t allows people to LEARN
As people with EGO Fail to LEARN
They don’t respect others
WINNERS have a healthy pride + they are down to earth + have humility
4 obstacles- fear + lack of motivation + low self esteem + ego

Problem- people don’t know what they wish to achieve
People are not clear about their GOALS and therefore NEVER WIN IN THE GAME of life
Goals——- are dreams to which we give DEADLINES and we make planslike action plans to achieve them

We need NEW SKILLS to achieve our goals: 4 stages to learn NEW SKILLS

Unconscious incompetence
Conscious incompetence
Conscious competence
Unconscious competence

To acquire any skill your main aim ——– should be to come to the 4th stage
UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE

Quality 5- Vision

If you have BIG VISION——– BIG DREAMS—– you can make them a reality
Don’t hesitate to dream BIG
People PERSISTED ON their vision and MADE DREAMS a REALITY